# 20211216 Reflection about cases Working with [[Patient NWE - Guy who said he got PTSD]] makes me think of how different it was with [[Patient CFaith]]. ## Common: Both is about differentiation, and developing sense of #Integration_of_self and #differentiation related to #Attachment issues from their parents. Both felt #neglect by their parents. ## Different: [[Patient CFaith]] self-harm, an internally directed form of anger and depression while [[Patient NWE - Guy who said he got PTSD]] direct his anger outwards, blaming others and hitting his father. [[Patient CFaith]] expresses lots of emotions and teary, while [[Patient NWE - Guy who said he got PTSD]]have a lack of emotions. So one need to cut and make clear of emotions, while the other seems need to join and generate more emotions. [[Patient CFaith]]parents have lesser expressed emotions, compare to [[Patient NWE - Guy who said he got PTSD]]'s parents who are louder and more emotional. ## How am i working / relating towards them? I have to design treatment accordingly. For [[Patient NWE - Guy who said he got PTSD]] i created a written, "recovery management plan"