COARSE NOTE #Juliana # C202003051320: Group supervision notes from 13 Feb 2020 Source: Bullet Journal. p. 53, 54 Backward: Forward: * L202003051338: #Trauma * L202003051342 : Transference and Counter Transference #countertransference * L202003051547: Feeling towards clients * L202003051351: Therapeutic relationship #psychotherapy * L202003051059: Juliana's practice wisdom #Wisdom * L202003051355 : Triangulation in system #therapeutic-relationship * L202003051416: Therapist issues [[supervision]] Cross reference: * [[C202003051012 Systemic_Group_Supervision_14_Jan_2020]] Notes: I wonder, what kind of clients draws me, and what kind pushes me away? * Concepts: * Why now? * Attachment, complex grief, self blame * Transference / Counter-transference - enactment * "What kind of clients draw me, or pushes me away?" * What is the "function of illness"? * Vicarious trauma * Anxious ambivalent attachment * Trauma ^4d4500 * ==Trauma is related to the sense of control. When a person experiences trauma, they experience a loss of control== ^9fb586 * Boundaries setting. [[202103082105 How to set Boundaries?]] * Question: "How similar or different?" * To be therapeutic is to have an edge of difference. * Triangulation - There can be therapeutic effect of being triangulated, if it's intentional. * "Having an awareness means that we already know how to exit (from the triangle)." * We are always in triangle, just the distance. * Question: "Do i need the family more, or family needs me more?" * Question: What will be the difference if there is no problem?" * You can only differentiate when you are connected to someone. * "Therapy is re-parenting. To re-experience good corrective experience" * "Community of tears" * Don't be clouded in judgement to see the system. * Question: "What does it say of us when we are _"protective, scare, anxious etc______?" * Take risk to push client out abit to grow. * When you find yourself working harder, it's a sign. * Looking for distinction, "when are the times you dont feel sian?" * Juliana shared about her experience making a mistake. "never too senior to learn" * Question to self: How do i know when an effect is reached or not? Keywords: * Supervision, * Practice wisdom * Systemic concepts * Questions, *